Let's learn about how to Get Unstuck and focus on values in moving ahead in life. Values will be helpful to get us unstuck if we move towards them. At Basic Level, the values are what we desire from life. Values are uplifting and empowering. We can also say that values are directions. We are driving heading east. Sometimes we can not go perfectly due east. We need to go southeast and northeast to stay on the path. But still, we need to take the direction of the east. Always keep in mind that values are direction, not a destination and always values are intentional. So we will try to obtain east but remember we cant obtain east because values are not an object to be had. Values Are Not Goals: Keep in mind that values are not goals because goals can be situations, events, and objects. Goals can be completed, finished. Goals get confused with Values(Directions). Values Are Not Outcomes: Values are themselves the outcome we are looking for, and we need to achieve that outcome now. Because values are empowering
This article is meant to provide some help to accept your pain, suffering and move happily towards the things that matter most in your life. Some of these lessons are adapted primarily from Hayes(2005). What matters here is that my effort will be successful if you find it helpful. Please let me know through comments. Watch This Video to Start our Content – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-wyaP6xXwE Our Goal Is to Get Untangled from this unbearable Pain Actually, the problem is those all the strategies that we use to solve the problems ultimately makes the things more bad and worse and result is we get suffered. The pain is real so if you are experiencing psychological/emotional pain it does not matter that you have to suffer. There is one another way and that is live a meaningful life and allow the suffering to take over so that you can rule your life and mind. Accept the pain as it is. An ACT can be broken into three areas majorly : Act - # Mindfulness: Try to observe your experiences and present fully in current movement without judging it. Acceptance-: Choose
Millions of People various countries love Norman Vincent Peale for his Positive Thinking books. Many people have followed him books and found good Results. We will see hundreds of comments in Short time. His work were liked by People So here his top 5 comments : 1). Become a possibilitarian. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities -- always see them, for they're always there. 2). Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution. If you don't have any problems, you don't get any seeds. 3). The way to happiness: Keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry. Live simply, expect little, give much. Scatter sunshine, forget self, think of others. Try this for a week and you will be surprised. 4). When you expect the best, you release a magnetic force in your mind which by a law of attraction tends to bring the best to you. 5). To become a happy person have a clean soul, eyes that see romance in the commonplace, a child’s heart, and spiritual simplicity. If you are follower of
We can see several different types of boundaries around us like fences, hedges, wall and other all physical boundaries. These all boundaries are different from each other, they give the same message. This is where my property begins. In General if I am property owner than I am legally responsible for take care of my property and what happens to it. Same way personal boundaries define us. These are essentials because this defines what is me and what is not me. A boundary tells me where I end and other person begins. It leads me towards sense of ownership and ownership motivates me to take care what is mine. Now let’s move towards concept of freedom. Freedom is knowing what I am to own and what I have responsibility for. If I know where my property starts and ends. I can freely do whatever I like with it. My friend start taking responsibilities and many different options will open for you. If I prefer to stay lazy and won’t take responsibilities of life than my options and choices are very limited.